Ever being loved by someone? or ever someone loved you from the depth of their heart? Yes, well then this post is for you lovely guys.
Have you ever noticed yourself when you are in love? You act awkwardly in state of love. Many people have lost the true meaning of love. Love is a very important part of one's life, and if there is uncertainty, it should not be pursued. The true meaning of love is to be in a complete and total bond with each other and care for each other when others flee. While many people try to achieve love in other ways, such as seeking financial support or having someone to support them in ways that they should do on their own, is not the true meaning of love. The ideas stated in the last sentence would help relationships but would blur the overall meaning of love.
Many people have looked for love in the wrong places. One must find a person to care for one in the darkest days to fully understand the true meaning of love. The true meaning of love is not easily achievable, and that is why some people will settle for less. True love will make one happy above all other aspects of life. The struggle to find one's perfect match is worth it in the end. Most people will settle for living a mediocre life with an average person instead of seeking the true meaning of love.
One who discovers the true meaning of love and achieves it with a significant other will far surpass any other's life. The true meaning of love is an outstanding goal and, when achieved, will be greatly beneficial. Persons who find this love with each other are few and far between. The lives of many are spoiled by greed and insecurity. Love is a very good medicine, so to speak; it will cure most of one's problems. When times are hard and one has to really look at how bad one's life is, just having someone to love in the most unconditional way will cure all troubles.
When one thinks of love, he probably thinks of things he has in common with the loved one, and the fun that's had together. The similarities had together is just the outer edge of what true love really means. And trust me guys this is the most romantic feeling you get in your life ever. If I get to explain this feeling, then It's like climbing a top of a mountain which require your focus and struggle but the feeling when you reached at the top is incredible. same is case with true love.
Many a times I have seen people who get depressed when they got breakup. They destroy themselves in so much extent that they start getting drunked, consumed drugs, think of suicide, etc. This is all foolishness. I have my own philosophy that if you are ditched in love then try to use that hate in in your carrer. Don't pain for those who left you instead use that pain to earn success that defines you. True love does exist in this world, you need to change your vision before seeing it.
Once a friend asked me what is love? I said love is the sixth sense which destroy all other five senses and make you nonsense. ( JUST FOR FUN ) 😁
How to Find Love
"How can I find love?" is a very common question on almost everyone's mind. And for good reason. Life can be pretty awesome, and love can make it even better.
1. Be positive.
Picture your dream partner and what they will be like. Make a list of traits and remember that personality traits are more important than the physical, though those are important as well. Wake up every morning seeing the day ahead as an opportunity to better yourself and your life, while at the same time helping others as well.
2. Improve yourself.
Learn a language, read more (find the types of books that you are passionate about, there are books for EVERYONE!), stay busy and make your life great. If there are negative people/bullies, in your life, slowly start distancing yourself from them. It may feel a little awkward at first, but you will flourish in your new positive environment. Trust me. It is also true what they say: For someone to love you, you have to love yourself. Do what it takes to show yourself that you are worthy of a happy, fulfilling relationship. Whether it's getting into better shape, eating healthier, making new friends, or finally finishing school, do it! Your future self will thank you for it.
3. Meet people.
I think people sometimes forget that humans are social creatures and that we need to interact with one another. Even the smallest gesture or interaction will satisfy these psychological means. Everyone has them, too. Even the "loners" eventually find other "loners" to be "loners" with! Volunteer, join/start a book club, take a class, talk to people in the grocery store and ask for recipes, talk to your parents, your waiter, and meet their friends. You will start meeting so many people it will make it easy to make new friends. Remember not to overwhelm yourself with all these new people. People have a way of weeding themselves out of our lives so you don't have to, and the ones that stick around are the people you want anyway, so everything works out. Get out of your comfort zone! Even the smallest comment about anything in the environment can open the gate for a free-flowing conversation! Some people love to talk and will talk to anyone. I learned this firsthand. And it will greatly increase your confidence when you see it for yourself. One of the best books that I have read on this subject is Always Talk to Strangers.
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